Before the article begins, we see two example about environmental sanitation worker first:
The early morning every weekend, the mother that this little boy wants a side to do environmental sanitation to be versed in is cleaned street. Be cleaned, mother and daughter still can rest together, say to talk, softhearted picture makes a person touch.
The young woman with a stouter bodily form, ground of firm of the firm that use a hand is dragging worker of an environmental sanitation to pull linage rice, other environmental sanitation is versed in before going up hastily, bar on the side frame. It is the daughter is wanting money to the mother so!
This mother is already fast 50 years old, do environmental sanitation to be versed in 10 old, a month just thousands of money. Her daughter already also did a mother, still lie between 3 difference 5 stretch his hand to want money to the mother, do not give money abuse, quarrel, fight...
It is the children that environmental sanitation is versed in together, why this little boy so mother of show solicitude for, and was that young woman become however " supercilious look wolf " ?
The boy with the big bubble in honey, how to know anxious flavor
Somebody asks the mother of little boy: Your home child is really sensible, how to teach?
One's words of not to be pooh-poohed of labour of this female environmental sanitation, do not say to give too much education truth to come, some feel embarrassed the ground says: "The child early husband of our poor! "The child early husband of our poor!!
In the poor's child, have a lot of very sensible, also have a lot of very capricious. I believe, put in some kind of element to cause this kind of distinction certainly. What is this kind of element after all? After seeing the story below, my suddenly be enlightened.
Some gentleman indulges when high school network, constant midnight turns over a wall to go out school get online. A day of his as usual turns over a wall, turn over a half to unplug namely sufficient run quickly madly and return, complexion is eccentric, ask not language. Read seriously from now on, get online no longer, the school is rife his absurd. He is taken an examination of later go up a school, in former days the classmate asks about this matter, he is silent a long time says, father sent living cost that day, hate to part with live hotel, sat below the wall overnight.
Be touched by this father? If,can be the hardships of this father, was not discovered by the son accident of piquant make trouble, can the son thoroughly |reform oneself?
The child is not inherent know father and mother of show solicitude for, after they cut cogent fact to experience parental hardships and affliction only, ability will be unripe to parental heart appreciate, ask strictly to oneself then, not a pains of disappoint parents.
Parents is excessive " caress " be blindly " bane "
The China of instantly, have a very terrible appearance -- " the whole people is rich 2 generation " .
The child of rich other people is become rich 2 generation are raised, the child of poor home also is become rich 2 generation are raised, "Cannot teach thoroughly thoroughly again, cannot suffer from the child again painstakingly " .
Have many father and mother, ignore difference of gift of domestic natural resources, by every means effort, bend is used up all, let the child enjoy best living conditions. Husband and wife two add on 4 old people, 6 people take care of a child, the clothes will stretch one's hand, the meal comes dehisce, it is to hold in both hands really be afraid of in the hand fell, contain in the mouth to be afraid of changed.
"Child early husband of the poor " , this word was put in the past hold water really. When going to school, I try hard desperately, be enlightened learns too, go striving for better life. I all along not extravagant ground spends money, because I know, parents offers each minutes of fund that I read, hard-earned. It is me not only, at that time, most child is beside me such.
Now, the family with a few not bounteous conditions, feel owing the child, afraid child is compared to go down by others home child, produce self-abased psychology, instead more the coddle, child that bestow favor on be addicted to. Most child lives the life of a kind of enjoyment, heated up available attune, cold have central heating, domestic home has snacks to eat, everybody has new clothes to wear. Parents is sufferred from again again tired, also hate to part with the child to bear hardships endure hardships.
Wish when parents all good things mix a whole world when all love give the child, forgot to tell the child a thing however: The hardships of the life, it is adv unimaginably. Of parents excessive " caress " , to children, it is undoubtedly blindly " bane " . Feel at ease and justified is enjoying children everything, know content with one's lot far from, be thankful and show consideration for parents, more what do not know the life is not easy. Contrary, still caused a lot of vanity, lazy bad defect.
Suit disease of alleged riches and honour, hard, it is argumentative
Know go up to ever had a very hot card, those who say is outer those who study abroad is rich 2 generation, ignorant and incompetent, cannot suit, produced extremely serious repellent move to learn in abroad and living, after mixing a semester constrainedly, the intent leaves school.
His father demur does not say, let his holiday do not go back to the motherland, cannot stay in the home, must go out to work.
Find a job that is in Chinese meal house, the teenager began " an abyss of suffering " " complete darkness " day.
"The boss of cafeteria is extremely slashing, tired work of what bad language throws me, my main task washs a bowl namely, pull the land, chop dish, move beverage, and fry a meal often, have me for some time to daydream repeatedly dream of oneself frying a meal. Even take orders from at other counterjumper incite, where rubbish should fall, where toilet was blocked up, the lip on them touchs next lips, I have to ground of bump of fart bump fart goes solving. The person that works in inn does not have culture, without green card, won't English, but I am newcome, and position lowest, do not have a position naturally. Arrived to issue an a flock of person chummage to be in a room in the evening, do not have privacy completely. They sleep dozen breathe out, this is a kind of torment for me extremely shallow to Morpheus, often sleep all night to be not worn all night, rise the following day work to want to be scolded again dispiritedly at all. Rise the following day work to want to be scolded again dispiritedly at all..
After a month, taking hardship to earn the money earned by hard toil that come, the ground returns his gloomy in the home. Father said a word meaningfully one time:
Not be everybody gets follow rules ground to finish the college on high school, finish an university to go to a company when office worker. Just if do not take this relatively easy route, that is placed in most person before work rough work dirty work only. But do rough work also is minute of person, some people work, some people do not work.
Some people also do not have a choice without the condition, only able rough work, that never mind is good say; But if some people have good condition and opportunity to abandoned egoistically missing however obviously, but want,will come regretful. Of course, if somebody connate different report, 3 years old of identification of spectrogram, 5 years old are composed or 18 years old can hit NBA, these words are not then applicable he. Otherwise, read to won't let a person be in an unfavorable situation forever well.
From now on the teenager learns seriously, do not have again incommensurate. Suit disease of so called before riches and honour, hard, it is argumentative, it is good to take pain.
Mix conscientiously hard, it is to give the child best gift
We did not let the child be far from the condition of attend school of ground of different of an alien land, but still can be in daily in let the child have more experience, offer an opportunity to let the child harvest harden oneself.
I one nephew attends this year in one's deceased father, it is one grows long holiday next. His pa Mom lets me help, the introduction works to the inn of tea with milk near my home, the experience lives.
Come back everyday, have new topic, or told us one day what to do, or came to some of what person in inn namely, still knew a few caballero that send snack and the thing of a few clerks, of saying clear and logical.
One day I ask him: It is easy to go to work not? He says: Also not allow easily also easy, I go to work these days, all one's life brother elder sister gives cried, the face laughs at deadlocked. Do I ask to reply a thing how? Then, he performs below to me:
"Elder brother, come! What to drink? What to drink??
"Good Lie elder sister, you wait a bit, sit a little while, immediately good! Immediately good!!
"Elder brother, will sit a little while into inn, have free WIFI, have air conditioning! Have air conditioning!!
"Elder sister, you are to drink orange juice to still drink tea with milk, elder sister, does candy want to be added more or be added less? Elder sister, is two spoon candy enough? Is two spoon candy enough??
"Elder sister, flavour how, much advise, elder sister! Elder sister!!
"Elder sister, your don't go yet, have nothing to do comes over to play ah elder sister! Have nothing to do comes over to play ah elder sister!!
He, said a string big at a heat, laugh I am continuously not to remove a waist to come.
I say: "Be not easy really! Waited for you to send salary, you are taking this money to travel! Well reward with food and drink oneself! Well reward with food and drink oneself!!
He says: "Calculated, I do not want to travelled! I do not want to travelled!!
I say: "For what? Are you early wanted to go? Are you early wanted to go??
He says: "I still take this money to arrive moment is filial and filial my pa Mom, filial and filial my grandma, buy bit of thing to them! Buy bit of thing to them!!
I send word to this word to his pa Mom, they times feeling is gratified.
Give the child again good education, be inferior to letting himself be experienced, of adult world " not easy " ! What Ceng Guofan says no less than: "Child brother's son is divided outside reading, those who teach sweep room, desk stool, receive dung, weed, it is wonderful thing, must not think to have caustic frame work and be also. Must not think to have caustic frame work and be also..
Today's parents, always wanting to give the child best condition, this is to be in actually kill the child. In growing process, material is more abundant, spirit jumps over be running low; When mental be running low, the footstep nature that creates material is met cease. Conversely, grow truely to the child, let the child know difficulty and hardships, teach the child to value gift and money, guide child support to be mixed conscientiously hard, just be the most abstruse to the child gift.
