Below high-pressured certainly, these 2 harm are confirmed, in case do you still meet future trouble

We emphasize wanting quality to teach again and again, to the child, some things are necessary, abide by the acceptance, punctual job that finish for instance, still be like He Yumo stranger to communicate, and how to take care of a family. Unfortunate is, the children that grow leave in the high-pressured certainly of helicopter type parents, this respect has comparative be short of break. Worse is, this just still fosters one of negative effects of means this kind, besides, a little negative still effect is a solid giving birth to the base of a fruit, eliminate hard. What influence is that? Above all, helicopter type teachs next children that grow, produce psychological problem more easily. Come from the United States a research showed 2013, the entrant of 83.4% feels hill of pressure of Xiu Manxue cent is big, and easy mood distresses. This does not calculate what, still have flimsier, the new student of 8% has considered to commit suicide even. Although we always cannot let to be made a scapegoat of helicopter type parents, but cannot take off implication with their educational means truly really. Why so say? In fact, helicopter type teachs next children that grow, once do not have dad Mom to decide for him, often can feel helpless, be in especially the not know what to do when facing difficulty alone. You think, helicopter type parents are held for the child broke heart, everything considers help somebody attain his aim extremely, the result brings about the child to do not have the space, ability that also does not have opportunity him put to good use already, also won't hold self-confidence naturally to oneself. You look, this did not help the child not only, arriving instead was to kill the child. From the point of a respect, the occurrence of this kind of result, one part results from parents report only the good news on the life at ordinary times. Everybody has success and failure, parents are not exceptional also. Some parents gained a success on the career, but the frustration that they never share themselves to once had been encountered with the child, let them purely pay close attention to the success at oneself only however. Children listen more, can imitate parents, establish a goal that does not lose father and mother, without giving thought to it whether suit is actual. Everybody can say big talk, but it is not easy however to should be done truly. Them often already incapable, lack passion again business, after the failure of the again and again, they begin angst and uneasiness, meet possibly finally accomplish nothing. Actually, this problem is very good also solve, parents also should come his failure and child share, and relax ask to theirs. Encircling raised another consequence is, parents is better to make children are behaved, more healthy cleverer, constant regular meeting begs cure to ask medicine with all possible means, and what to beg cure to ask medicine was brought after all? Investigation shows, the American children of 11% is diagnosed use disease more to notice blemish obstacle is mixed, among them 6.1% ever was opened accordingly prescription drug. Beg cure to ask medicine, it is certain to also have " advantage " . A few parents think, take medicaments to be able to improve the performance of children, then a lot of parents begin to let the child eat this to eat that, without giving thought to whether true effective. Besides the parent, many undergraduates also can use this kind of remedy at random. Because of to them character, taking drug is they can support the only way that go down.

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