Buddha takes move comparing surname in those days people everywhere great law, mendicant beg is fed. One day, than grave people come to a village mendicant beg is fed, the people that did not think of this village is medium is insulted by every means to them, say their each age comes out gently beg for food, know pair of society benefit far from, more somebody is acid they: "What do this have, the family does not work, do not have all the same eat have drink. " still some people are flat let them leave a village at once, also did not come again later. The villager people what beg feeds will compare grave before be being insulted ceaselessly people. Than grave people cannot enduring such affront, leave a village crestfallenly, beside returned Buddha.
Buddha sees the empty earthen bowl in their hand, ask: "The villager people do not be willing alms giving gives you food, be? Be??
One says than grave: "Buddha, yes. We whether go to other place is beg fed? We whether go to other place is beg fed??
Buddha says: "OK of course, can let you go to other place the reason that beg feeds, also arrive now with you each reason that each beg feeds is same. Also arrive now with you each reason that each beg feeds is same..
At this moment additionally one tells Buddha to say than grave: "Buddha, you do not know somewhat, the person over there always is in abuse, derisive, affront we.
Buddha asks: "Are you so angry? If they use a flower to receive you, you can be filled with joy, be? " than grave people after listening silent not language. At this moment Buddha continues compassionate say: "You do not give inner calm others. External environment can shake you, also can cheerful you. " at that time, the heart has complain than grave people wake up to reality because of the instruction of Buddha immediately.
They say to Buddha: "Buddha, we are wrong, if the outside can make our heart medium produce anguish and anger, because we are returned,did not comprehend your instruction namely. Because we are returned,did not comprehend your instruction namely..
"External environment happens is a kind of lot, if your heart changes as external environment, generation feeling, your heart had been controlled by environment place. If you have Bing to hate a heart, then you realize the truth to return apart from card very far.
I hope you learn a thing:
People won't accept new thing easily, you are to breaking them foregoing belief, they won't give birth to a love necessarily, at first they mock you, next they drive again you, avoid you after that, disregard you, but you hold to, they can accept you gradually, you must experience these change, maintain modesty and how to bear. Maintain modesty and how to bear..
Listened to Buddha show, than grave people the heart is unripe jubilate, genuflect is before Buddha chapel of put the palms together.
Hope everybody wants to know, on this world, lubricious body and dirt condition are rise because of your improper thought, you are not happy today, because your heart is in,that is not happy. Outside the place is right you change without what, because outside condition make you not happy again, you can make yourself very happy all the same; Outside condition reopen heart, you also can make yourself not happy. Resemble a lot of people, others is in happy when, he board move face, he is not happy still. your happy and not happy be others affect you? Remembered, that is you -- oneself.
So, occasionally we think heart of happy, take things too hard in the home, oneself are built. The madam murmurs the ground scolds you in Ji every day, when having, you can be borne, enduring, all the same very happy; Why to live with respect to hold back occasionally? Because your heart is in,change. If your heart does not have the word that Li hinders, how does others tell you again, you all the same the heart hinders without Li , without Li hindering reason.