I am morning dream evening is picked up, have temperature, have an attitude. Click " attention " , you are my person.
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Compare a man, the woman is more sensitive in love, because,meet in love the other side a casual word and sad and sad very long. Have a kind of such women, the heart is like is glass is touched euqally broken, they can magnify a few bagatelle in love, a common saying can move their sentiment. Such practice not only the feeling that can hurt them, also can let them become a man to avoid not as good as " vitreous heart woman "
Small beautiful it is a such woman, because,in the process that interacts with male friend she often is met a few bagatelle a word with male perhaps inadvertently friend, quarrel greatly with male friend one, after when having even, quarrelling, male friend does not know small beautiful it is why to get angry after all.
After quarrelling with male friend, she is met Xiang Pengyou him complain tearfully experience, at the beginning friends feel small beautiful what male friend does is too beyond the mark really, know not at all include small beautiful. Can be the elapse as time, friends just understand, not be small so beautiful male friend is not known include, however small beautiful oneself too " vitreous heart " , it is the bagatelle of a few trifles in the life originally, can be small beautiful it is hold tight is worn do not put, then friends also begin slowly aloof she.
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For instance once small beautiful a person is in the home, eat because meal hind is too tired did not clear away tableware, male friend comes off work after returning the home, see has used bowl chopsticks is placed on table, the leftover ort in boiler also does not have processing. Asked: "How to eat a meal to be not cleared away, do so in disorder " .
Face small beautiful postprandial remaining pieces, say as male friend one did not pass normally again actually so, and male after saying this word friend also begins him a person was cleared away rise.
Can be small beautiful do not think so however, she feels to subdue extremely, oneself are so tired male friend does not care, return the home to blame his not to clear away housework instead.
She although whats did not say but male friend still saw his mood is bad, ask her: "Li Li how, is the job not satisfactory? Is the job not satisfactory??
The word of male friend not only fail to comfort her, let her feel male to friendly both neither takes her seriously to also do not know her instead, think of these are small beautiful subdue actually cried. Face those who cry is small beautiful, male friend does not know how to should do temporarily.
Small later beautiful tell with her friend remove this thing to say: " all men are such, the state of mind that did not know a woman " , her friend does not know to say what is good temporarily.
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Not be the state of mind that the man does not know a woman actually, however small beautiful too " vitreous heart " . Apparently male friend was not blamed small beautiful meaning, say a such word does not pass normally again between sweethearts, small beautiful can a lot of kinds of means respond to male friend. But be in small beautiful regarded this word as however in the heart the degree that blame and still rises to male friend not to know her.
Picture small beautiful is such schoolgirl very infrequent in the life? If you had observed attentively,can discover not infrequent, because,in the life they often are met others a few innocently act, cause very big worry to oneself. In love they need the other side to fooling their to bestowing favor on their to just can experience the love of the other side, need what the other side keeps to give, should have a tiny bit of is inferior to only meaning can generate negative sentiment.
Apparently " vitreous heart woman " can let a man avoid not as good as, how can you just change this kind of current situation after all so? Common saying says country changes nature easily to move hard, but should have enough resolution only, it is to be able to be passed below these two kinds of means change him.
1, removed the line of sight appropriately from his body
When some schoolboys say to pursueing the girl, the girl's simple him message should be fathommed very long, consider the implication in her word, think how oneself should reply to just can let her be interested in her. Why can careless at ordinary times schoolboy become in the girl that faces his to like such? Because love her too,the answer is.
In love " vitreous heart woman " also be this reason mostly, working at ordinary times and work in the life free and easy but be opposite at the same time,oneself male friend gets into a dead end with respect to love, and his every act is affecting his heart. Simple him word can regard as is one kind is blamed, a simple thing can think more.
Facing what this kind of circumstance should do is " removed the line of sight appropriately from his body " not be to say to let you reduce the love to him, always staring at him however, unlock eye shot, can go doing a few businesses that oneself like, also can develop him interest interest, OK also even in putting oneself energy in the job more.
You can discover after period of time, you once hold tight wears what the issue that does not put imagines without you so serious, your richer life can let you become have charm more.
2, see the problem weak
A word is called " the world does not have a thing originally, of worry about troubles of one's own imagining " , in love a lot of things do not have so profound meaning, often be the too much ability that oneself think makes what the thing goes complex, some moment actually he namely so say, you were not necessary completely to go to go in the heart.
Once had seen a such conte, a pair of old husband and wife, the old man is a particularly severe person, occasionally granny made small fault chatter not was over, at that time granny is installed deaf, no matter what the old man says,she pretends to did not hear same response " what do you say, I listen not clear ah " .
Does somebody ask she is to listen really later not clear? Her answer says: "Listen not clear it is the old man talks about a few at most, listen clear to may quarrel instead, still be inferior to pretending to listen to not clear left ear to enter, right ear goes out " .
When a few problems are encountered in love, be inferior to doing " left ear is entered, right ear goes out " person, do not put these issues on the heart, go considering the issue of other, change a kind of state of mind may better.
Not be every girl from be born rising is affection amounts to a person, can handle the issue in love very well, love also needs to grow ceaselessly and learn. "Vitreous heart woman " although let what the man avoids not as good as, but it is a bit better to want to be able to try hard to become only, a bit firmer, can correct assurance is good the means that gets along with male friend, can be in love get along with more mature attitude and lover.
